That actually sounds kind of genius. but then you'd never get away from your work.
Usually, it helps work out and untangle what's gumming up your head and emotions. Either by hearing it yourself and really thinking on it, or having a small help from the person you're talking to, getting insight you might not have thought of.
And sometimes it's just cathartic to yell and vent to someone that's got nothing to do with the situation, just to get it out.
Only if you're not able to call it a day. I mean, I don't sleep in the exact space I work. I just park my trailer next to it.
Huh. My brother'd tell you I'm really good at yelling and venting, but that release doesn't tend to last much longer than any other. Max doesn't much encourage talking to anyone but him and our sister.
Ah, that makes more sense. Do you like being able to kind of pick up and move wherever you want?
I feel like that just means you have a lot pent up that you may not be releasing. And that would be part of the problem, only talking to your brother and sister. For starters, you need someone you're not related to, didn't grow up with, to vent to, to really get the full effect. And they're too close because you're bound to keep some things back to not hurt them or say something you'll regret.
I'm far from a social worker, unless social workers are willing to bring you a bottle if you need it. Though, I've been to enough therapists in my life that maybe something stuck. As for where to start, generally, you just start talking. If you let go a little, your mind will usually take lead for where to start. Sometimes my rants were as simple as my sister in my room without permission, other times it was deeper but it started similarly.
For Dean ~flawedheart
Pitch was okay, words, well I'm pretty sure they weren't English.
[At least closing the bar out, there aren't that many people around to see it?]
Did you want me to bring some aspirin or hangover burgers?
Thanks for moving the thread!
Granted, a gift only when I'm certain levels of drunk, but still. A gift.
[He's pretty sure a gift that no one at the bar asked for, but still.]
Both would be awesome. You are a saint.
My Pleasure!
It definitely is a special kind of gift.
[Some didn't appreciate it, others chuckled and just waved it off knowing he was just that drunk.]
I'm not so sure about being a saint. Extra bacon on the burgers, right?
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[He can make some serious poor decisions when under the influence; accidentally summoning an elder god wouldn't be the worst thing he's ever done.]
Yes, please. And definitely a saint.
For Michael ~neverlooksaway
Sleeping it off is a perk.
Not if you're fixing it with that bottle. Eventually, you might want to try a different fix. A willing ear, as it were.
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I can't say talking about things has ever been my strong suit. Never understood how it helps.
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Usually, it helps work out and untangle what's gumming up your head and emotions. Either by hearing it yourself and really thinking on it, or having a small help from the person you're talking to, getting insight you might not have thought of.
And sometimes it's just cathartic to yell and vent to someone that's got nothing to do with the situation, just to get it out.
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Huh. My brother'd tell you I'm really good at yelling and venting, but that release doesn't tend to last much longer than any other. Max doesn't much encourage talking to anyone but him and our sister.
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I feel like that just means you have a lot pent up that you may not be releasing. And that would be part of the problem, only talking to your brother and sister. For starters, you need someone you're not related to, didn't grow up with, to vent to, to really get the full effect. And they're too close because you're bound to keep some things back to not hurt them or say something you'll regret.
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You sound like the social worker I had as a kid. She was always encouraging me to open up, too. I'm not even sure I'd know where to start.
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I'm far from a social worker, unless social workers are willing to bring you a bottle if you need it. Though, I've been to enough therapists in my life that maybe something stuck. As for where to start, generally, you just start talking. If you let go a little, your mind will usually take lead for where to start. Sometimes my rants were as simple as my sister in my room without permission, other times it was deeper but it started similarly.
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For Arya ~wolf_blood
Usually. I don't even remember being interested in someone enough to say yes.
Just how much tequila was involved...?
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probably just ghost him tbh.
...A lot. We ran out of lime slices at some point.
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Or see if we can mail it back...
If we ran out of lime, that is a lot...
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Yeaaah.
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creepy slimy.
uggg. I need a shower.
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Keep the ring then. Let it be a lesson. And good call on the shower.
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Where should we go?
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For Cersei ~cerseisassister
I'd be greatly appreciative if you would return them.
Or I can come grab them, that is also an option.
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It depends. Is your house occupied with anyone but you at the moment?
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Actually, I'm working on getting my own flat. should be closing on it in a couple days.
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Is it something I'll need you around to use?
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